Proverbs 15:1 teaches us that, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” That’s a familiar verse isn’t it? Sadly, we tend to hear more harsh words than soft ones. Yet, when we hear a soft answer, it gets our attention; sometimes a whisper can be more powerful than shouting. In a world where everyone is fending for themselves and willing to do anything to get ahead, true kindness and goodness get people’s attention. While it may be an act (or a manipulative tactic) for some, Christians should be characterized by genuine kindness (gentleness) and goodness.
The words, kindness (gentleness) and goodness, are synonyms—they have the same meaning. If you were to look up the Greek words in a Greek-English lexicon (dictionary) you would find that both of them list kindness and goodness in their definitions. While the second may emphasize moral character a little more strongly, they both are concerned with how we treat others.
Genuine kindness and goodness are motivated by love. They also seek peace with others — they express humility and are not self-seeking. In fact, if you want to understand what kindness and goodness look like, I think you can find the best description in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Perhaps you are thinking, “Hold on Pastor, that passage describes love.” Well, yes, it does. However, if you take the time to ponder it, I think you will find that you will never know true kindness and goodness without understanding (agape) love. And, you will never understand what agape love is until you know Christ. As He said, “Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” (Matthew 11:29)
May we always follow His example and may our lives, our kindness, and our goodness, point others to Him!
In His grip,
Pastor Decker
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